Most of us are unaware of the degree we love our partners. Sometimes, like I used to, you people just flow with the stream and never bother if your partner is not feeling good or she has bad mood or any problem. You just let the daily routine going and don’t even care to change to make your partner happy.  Well, this happens even in the most committed relationships and it’s a truth.

I will tell you my personal experience. I have been in a relationship from last three years and we love each other a lot. She for me is the best match for me and no one can be as perfect as she is. I am really grateful to god who sent her in my life. I used to think she is mine and won’t go anywhere so I never really tried to take her problems seriously. I used to think she must become mature to handle her problems by herself so that she can face this world. I used to give advice, but never tried to force things and I was wrong! Doing all this I was just sending her away from myself.

I know my act make her think I don’t care for her and love her, which is absolutely wrong, but like other men I don’t show my feelings upfront. This was the biggest mistake done by me to our relationship. I used to come late and sometimes get so busy that I didn’t come on time. She used to wait for me, but never complaint. As I said in the beginning I love her, but didn’t know the degree of my love for her.

And one day I got a message from her that she will not come back and its being a month now without her. But this one month has shown me everything. I have realized my mistakes and my insufficiencies. Most important thing I have realized is the degree of my love for her. Now I know she is like oxygen to me and I can’t even think of life without her. I will be proposing her as soon as she comes. She will a new Ankur when she come back I just hope she comes back soon.

Taking lesson from me, don’t let the who loves you go away from you because when you will not found her near you, you will realize what she means to you.